by David Wygant
Published:
Friday, February 10, 2012
The Ground Rules For A Perfect Valentine's Day
<a href="http://ca.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice_600/653_perfect-valentines-day.html"> <img src="http://images.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice_600/653_perfect-valentines-day-1057732-flash.jpg" alt="Credit: dating/dating_advice_600/653_perfect-valentines-day-1057732-flash.jpg" /></a><br /> Gentlemen, <a href="http://www.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip/tip14.html">Valentine’sDay</a> is fast approaching. While it might not be your favorite holiday, the woman inyour life right now feels differently. The only way to make this day not suck for both ofyou is for you to make it amazing. This is the year when you will bring the wood onValentine’s Day. It’s really not that complicated.<ahref="http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_250/277_plan-a-romantic-getaway.html">Romance</a>is something that I think a lot of couples lack, despite everyone fundamentally desiringit -- especially women. The fundamental rule you need to abide by on Valentine’s Dayis that it’s all about her. There's nothing about you on this day. You've got tobecome the most selfless man out there. You've got to make this day special from beginningto end, regardless of how you feel about Hallmark holidays.To be honest withyou, I think Valentine's Day is a useless holiday. I know I’m not the only guy whofeels this way. Regardless of what we think, women want to feel special on this day. Fromthe second they wake up that morning, they're waiting for their Valentine's Day surprises.They awake in a state of anticipation, like kids on Christmas.If you livetogether and you do nothing in the morning before she go to work, you've already made heranxious. So my suggestion to all of you guys: Wake up earlier. Cook her breakfast, makeher coffee and send her out with coffee to go. Bonus points if you bought some whippedcream the night before and snuck some into her to-go mug.Do something youdon't normally do. That way, when she gets to the office and she hears all the other womensaying “You won’t believe what my husband did,” she'll be able to shareher experience, too.At the office, the flowers from her colleagues' husbandsand boyfriends will start showing up, and all the women are going to be gossiping. So makesure that on Valentine's Day you send her something to the office -- something cute, maybejust a card, or one flower, or maybe just an email with a song. Or maybe you can send hera song about the way you feel about her during the day -- something different, becauseshe's going to be talking to girls all day long.That's what women do -- theytalk. And she doesn't want to feel like you've ignored Valentine's Day, especially infront of her friends. She doesn't want to feel neglected.<ahref="http://www.askmen.com/valentines-day-2012/">This Valentine’s Day</a>, forgetabout the reservations and the expensive, mediocre restaurant meal. (Ask any restaurantcook, and they'll admit they’re on autopilot on Valentine’s Day.) Create themost intimate picnic you've ever had at home. The picnic is going to bein your living room. What you're going to do is you're going to light the entire livingroom with candles. You're going to put on some great music, you're going to put rosepetals all along the blanket and in the entrance of your house. You're going to createromance as she walks in. You're going to tell her to be at your house at 7:30 p.m. becauseyou have a surprise for her.Suggest she wear something that makes her feelsexy. She's going to walk in, music will be playing, candles lit all around, and the twoof you are going to sit down in the middle of your living room and have a picnic and abottle of wine. It is by far the most romantic Valentine's Day she will ever have.She will go into that office the very next day and tell all her friends andcolleagues, and they’ll all envy her because they will have sat in crowdedrestaurants with their dates, just like last year. That is how you distinguish yourself onValentine's Day, how you honor the woman in your life and create romance.Forall you single guys, I've got one quick tip for all of you. Before you go into the officeon Valentine's day, buy a box of those little cards that kids pass around in grade school,because everyone loves to get a little something, even if it’s from a friendlyacquaintance. Buy those cards, write your colleagues' name on it and say “HappyValentine's Day! Love, Bill in accounting” or whatever it might be. Be cute and handthem out during the course of the day to the women in the office.They're goingto feel good. They're going to remember it and they're going to look at you differently asthat really cool nice guy who made them feel great about being single on Valentine's Day.If you don't want to do the cards, you can walk around with those little conversationheart candies and you can basically give them out.It's all about being a man.It's all about being honorable, and it's all about making women feel really amazing. Ifyou're single and you want to earn brownie points with the women for the rest of the year,go for it. If you're in a relationship, those brownie points may be even more valuable. <p> <a href="http://ca.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice_600/653_perfect-valentines-day.html">Continue Reading</a> </p>
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