How To Land A One-Night Stand

Have you always wanted to go on a date, sleep with the woman immediately and never see heragain? Do you find yourself at the bar on a Friday night looking around and wondering howto land that one-nightstand? Here are three ways of pulling it off.

Situation No. 1: On A Date

Let's say you're on a date and you like her, but you know you don't like her enough to beyour girlfriend. You know that you don't want to spend the next month pretending to likeher, pretending to want to have a relationship with her, just so you can get in herpants.So, here you go: You're laughing with her, you're having a good time,and then it all comes down to the crucial moment: How do you tell this beautiful woman sitting across fromyou that you do not want a relationship but would like to sleep with her?Thisis what I'd do: Look directly in her eyes and do not break eye contact. Then say this:"Listen, I'm not looking for a relationship right now. I think you're wonderful, butI’ve got to tell you that I know I can't give you what you need right now, andthere's no reason for us to do the dance. But I do find you intriguing, really alluringand incredibly sexy, and I would love to spend the night with you tonight and show youexactly how I feel right now."Do not break eye contact at this moment becausethis is going to tell whether you're strong and not afraid, and it's also going to showher that you're a guy who's done this before and you're going to give her a goodtime. She might hem, she might haw a little bit, and she might say,“Well I'm not really looking for a one-night stand.” That's when you look ather again and say this: "I'm honest. I really don't like to play games at all. I couldhave lied to you, and I could have told you I wanted a relationship. I could have pursuedyou like a lot of guys do, just to get into your pants, and then leave you confused when Idon't call. But I have to tell you I am so intrigued by what you feel like. I can't stopthinking about how you and I would be together, because I know just by looking at youthere are a lot of things that I can do to make you feel unbelievable tonight. And Ireally would like that opportunity to do that right now."Once again, do nothesitate. The choice is hers. If she says no, look at her and tell her you understand andrespect that. Leave it at that. You might run into her a few weeks later, and she might bein the mood -- and you've already planted the seed.

Situation No. 2: At The Bar

So, you're at a bar and you're looking around. You find the one woman who keeps breakingaway from her friends. She's constantly breaking for the bathroom, going to the barherself to get a drink. She’s basically turning her back on the group and looking atdifferent men.What she's doing is trying to find the guy who she can eitherget a date with or have a fling with. What you need to do is become very playful with her.Call her out on what she's doing. Walk by and say, “I know what you're doingtonight, and I know what you're looking for. I've been watching you. I'll beback.” Leave a little bit of intrigue. About 10 minutes later, whisper in herear and say, “What was wrong with that guy? Was that guy not the one for you for thenight? I know you're interviewing tonight; I can see it.”More tipson how to score a one-night stand, next... 

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by David Wygant Published: