How Do You Know If She Likes You?

Always Have A Plan

You shouldn’t be going out with Melody right after a funeral if you are so affectedby it. To you Psych majors, you should be upbeat and positive when you’re out with awoman. And driving around and talking and drifting into a movie theater isn’t adate. It’s only a weak excuse for one. You’re not organized at all, pal. Youshould have had a plan with Melody. The whole idea behind my book is to have and follow agame plan. So apparently you don’t have my materials.You might have felta connection to Melody, my friend, but the important question is whether or not she felt aconnection to you. Or was she just crying on your shoulder because a good friend cashed inhis chips?Kissing Melody all over the place was an error. You shouldn’tbe smooching this babe when you’re coming out of a funeral. Like my cousin RabbiLove says, “You don’t make time with a woman at a funeral. It’s notkosher.” Then you started talking about the future and how you’d like to seeher. Tell me something: Why isn’t Melody texting and phoning you? Why are you doingall the pursuing? You don’t know the first thing about Challenge,Fish.But you claim that you didn’t pressure Melody. No, you just tell her howmuch you like her, that’s all. And while you might not return her calls immediately,you’re blowing Challenge in other areas.

She's Not Into You - Here's Why

Now let me get this straight. You were making out with Melody, then she split to Europefor a week and you didn’t see her for a month and a half. Like my cousin Fast EddieLove from East L.A. says, “Oh, yeah, this chick is really gone over you!” Andby the way, she isn’t supposed to set the date to meet again. The man is thedate-maker. Again, it’s obvious that you don’t have my book.Nowlet me ask you this: What does it tell you that Melody doesn’t respond to yourmessages for two weeks? Well, it must mean that she can’t afford the time since itwould take 20 whole seconds out of her life. That’s a lot to ask a person.It’s like giving someone a book and asking them to read it. Wake up, Fish!But you swear that you’re not a chump and a desperation chaser. Dude, you’vebeen chasingthis girl all along. And when you sent Melody that Facebook message, you were begging.Fish, don’t you think she got your earlier messages? You haven’t a clue, man.In fact, you’re the king of telephone blunders!But Melody had an excusefor not getting back to you: Her uncle died. Like my cousin Sal “The Fish”Love says, “Does this babe come from a mafia family or something?” Yes,you’re wasting your time with Melody. You’ve been wasting your time for twomonths, guy. Melody is not interested in you at all. How can you tell if she likes you asmuch as you like her? Simple -- by reading her actions, not her words. And like the oldChinese saying goes, “Her actions speak volumes.”Remember, guys:If you leave two messages and she doesn’t call back, you’re out.To hear my LOVE RADIO SHOW, send me your love questions or to find out moreabout “The System,” visit me at DocLove.com orcall 800-404-2644. For the past 30 years, Doc Love has asked thousands of women,“Why do you stay with one man vs. another? 

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